My first bike was a ZX6R, then bought a ZX10R.
You needed to be polite to her too but when keeping 2 fingers on the brake lever as reference it was fine to handle.
And indeed like I said before above the ~6000rpm the speed is perfectly on the gas, but under it it's like BUMP.
It keeps on my mind because my friend doesn't have this issue in this kind of matter. Got this bike 4 years now and rode 25k miles on it, so am kind of used to it.
And Yes the adaption is reset after a map change, including the 20minute stationary after it.